The thread for people with no girlfriends/ boyfriends

[douglasr007]

God damn - where to start with my situation

[Daniel_Rider]

The beginning.

[hollt693]

I'll get the popcorn!

[DoReMix]

Hm. Okay.
I could really use some advice on my situation...

Ermm... You see, I've liked this guy for a looong time now.
But he's a real dick; arrogant and very, very frank. He sounds almost gay but he's not. LULZ
The reason why I like him is because of his honesty. Honesty always appeals to me.
But sometimes he gets too honest that it hurts people's feelings.
Um, I really want to tell him that I like him but I'm afraid he'll reject me. It'd humiliate me. Like srsly.
However, a lot of my friends tell me he has a thing for me. But I'm a bit skeptical. Sometimes, I think he gives out hints but I'm not very sure.

So um, should I tell him that I like him? Or should I tell him that he's an asshole? :|

[Dark_DJ]

defo that you like him...nothing can go wrong probably =]

[hollt693]

Tell him that he's an asshole but you like him.
Actually, maybe that's a bad idea.
I don't know.
If this stuff came easy to me I wouldn't be here, now would I?

[boutboulman]

You love honesty so be honest with him, it's as simple as that. Maybe he'll be honest back and hurt your feelings, but at least you'll be set and certain you know the truth about how he feels.
There's never a situation where telling someone you like them is a bad thing, it's a lovely thing to hear don't you think.
Then if you become friends, or better yet a couple, maybe eventually tell him about how much you love honesty, but sometimes the better thing to do is just not say. If you wait till the right moment he'll understand.
:)
Keep us up to date with how that pans out yeah!

[hollt693]

Does the same concept apply to hitting on a guy you think is straight?

[Pants3000]

Um...all in favour of not listening to Hollt's story say "Aye!"
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Aye!

[hollt693]

Aye!

[DoReMix]

You love honesty so be honest with him, it's as simple as that. Maybe he'll be honest back and hurt your feelings, but at least you'll be set and certain you know the truth about how he feels.
There's never a situation where telling someone you like them is a bad thing, it's a lovely thing to hear don't you think.
Then if you become friends, or better yet a couple, maybe eventually tell him about how much you love honesty, but sometimes the better thing to do is just not say. If you wait till the right moment he'll understand.
:)
Keep us up to date with how that pans out yeah!


Mate, thank you so much.
That actually took out this "heaviness" (LULZ) in me.
Thank you.

But, I don't know when I can do it though.
I think I'll have to prepare myself first.
Yep, I'll definitely tell you how it works out...
My tummy's all in knots now. lol

[boutboulman]

Yeah no problem DoReMix. A problem shared is a problem halved.

Oh, and Aye! (My real opinion is think it through *very* carefully first.)

[niKa]

i havent got one
there's a lot of jerk :C they're making fun of me all da time!
but i want one xD

[boutboulman]

DoReMix, tell us what happened!!
I want to know, obviously. And so does everyone else, hear their clamour.

[Daniel_Rider]

-Clamour clamour.-

[Dark_DJ]

_still single... :(

[Skills_sant^^]

_still single... :(


your not the only one ;p

[DJPixcell]

_still single... :(


your not the only one ;p


make that 3

[daft gamer2]

_still single... :(


your not the only one ;p


make that 3

..... 4 .....*cough*

[Dark_DJ]

ah i dont mind being single sometimes, but i get so darn lonely sometimes...and would love to be loved....

[digital*aria]

youre loved here! (but i know thats not what you had in mind)


no bf's now... dont have much luck with them. (ive had two, both of whom had initials JB and both of whom broke up with me after a year and went out with a friend of mine right after...)

[niKa]

if i have, my school gonna make fun of me
asshole school, oh:
-on 6th grade me and Barış (one of mah friends) were sitting next to each other on computer classes. We were yack-yacking about films (he's a movie geek) and music (i'm a music geek yo see :D) and helping each other on computer classes. Suddenly Toygan came and said "GUYZ I THINK THAT THEY LOVE EACH OTHER, ah pardon *making heart shape with hands*". And whole class, whole 6th graders were making fun of us. :(

[R0B0T]

if i have, my school gonna make fun of me
asshole school, oh:
-on 6th grade me and Barış (one of mah friends) were sitting next to each other on computer classes. We were yack-yacking about films (he's a movie geek) and music (i'm a music geek yo see :D) and helping each other on computer classes. Suddenly Toygan came and said "GUYZ I THINK THAT THEY LOVE EACH OTHER, ah pardon *making heart shape with hands*". And whole class, whole 6th graders were making fun of us. :(

Sounds like they were jealous. Don't let it bother you. :)

[Alex]

Then again, they're 6th graders, who are still quite childish.


btw, make that 6 singles here.

[Electro_Ma]

youre loved here! (but i know thats not what you had in mind)


no bf's now... dont have much luck with them. (ive had two, both of whom had initials JB and both of whom broke up with me after a year and went out with a friend of mine right after...)


....Jerks!!

[niKa]

they're 6th graders, who are still quite childish.

well they laughed at sexual seminar too... dont ask what happened its hilarious

[polylateral]

All my friends say I should get a boyfriend, but being a 15-year-old, I HAVE NO TIME FOR THIS!

I'm fine being single, anyway. I like it. ;D

[Daniel_Rider]

All my friends say I should get a boyfriend, but being a 15-year-old, I HAVE NO TIME FOR THIS!

I'm fine being single, anyway. I like it. ;D

Pretty much exactly this for me. Except girlfriend, not boyfriend.

[cool_guy]

im single...and a whore

haha

[bonjamins]

it doesn't bother me being single, it bothers me when people complain about how much there life sucks because they're boyfriend/ girlfriend broke up with them then after there single they have another BF / GF within a week.

[niKa]

and if you broke up you'll be really sad sometimes

[Dark_DJ]

it doesn't bother me being single, it bothers me when people complain about how much there life sucks because they're boyfriend/ girlfriend broke up with them then after there single they have another BF / GF within a week.

those people bug me a bit too bonjamins...

[dj_waybig]

Wow this thread has been ignored. I'm still very sad to say I'm still rejected. But as I see, previous people who posted have gotten luck and love.

Q: Since there is a relationship problems thread shouldn't this be closed down?

[digital*aria]

i guess not. because relationship problems are for people who are actually IN or are HOPING to be in a relationship.


this is for people like us. who noone wants ^_^

(Just kidding... sorta)

[piroteki]

Q: Since there is a relationship problems thread shouldn't this be closed down?

i think the two topics are diverse enough that we can leave them as is.

(teehee, i technically don't have any business in this thread anymore~)

[CuBuLo]

im single with low self esteem and probobly will be for a long time because I am afraid to ask anyone out


well they laughed at sexual seminar too... dont ask what happened its hilarious

Ya that happens in my class all the time, it really aggravates me.

[Dark_DJ]

im officially out of this thread now, hooray =D

[B.E.A.S.M]

im officially out of this thread now, hooray =D


oh, that's right, PILE IT ON! :(

[hani]

Valentine's Day.

fvck.

[B.E.A.S.M]

I lol'd at this...

v=st8-oYpI_FE

[hani]

I wouldn't because I'm 18 and single. and it sucks.

[JPML014]

Yesterday I met a girl. She was beautiful and she was really liking me. As well as me liking her. She had recently broke up with her boyfriend so she was looking for someone. Basically everything she said was indirectly telling me to be her boyfriend. I'm gonna see what comes out of it. Maybe if everything turns out ok, I won't have to post in this thread anymore. Yayz!!!

[boombagirl]

i'm single :(

[NightShark]

Your not the only one's. I am also very lonely. But I have Daft Punk so it's okay.

[boombagirl]

i have music it's my boyfriend

[Isabella]

^that reminds me of that CSS song hehehe... Well, you guys seem to be pretty young so it's ok if you're currently single.

[gdlneo]

Digital Love.. That song still belongs to a girl I used to love...

Now "Make Love" is all that matters in my loveless life...

But, meeting girls in clubs and stuff is kind of fun, but not interesting, I really want to connect with someboy with my way to think and stuff...

Some girl from The Daft Club would be interesting hahahaha

[Jon77]

im single :( i need to find someone

[dj_waybig]

Digital Love.. That song still belongs to a girl I used to love...



Same here dude. Same here.

[staceylala]

I'm single and loving it lol.
You don't need someone else to make you feel happy...

[Kamayo369]

GOD! I've liked this girl for four years and only now I'm beginning to make progress!

[staceylala]

I've found myself in a bit of a weird situation.. For me at least. I actually like someone lol, which I like NEVER do. lol.
But he's an arse really, so I ain't even gonna go there, lol.
It's an odd thing to try and explain.

[Kamayo369]

lol, I was confused at first too, she's the only girl I've ever fancied but before tht I never would've dreamed tht I'd like her as much as I do.

[staceylala]

lol, I was confused at first too, she's the only girl I've ever fancied but before tht I never would've dreamed tht I'd like her as much as I do.


I liked someone for about three years, but unfortunatly that phailed lol. but I was very young. I hope things go a lot better for you.
This new person is the type of guy you know will just **** you over, but I can't help it. I'm a sucker for a bad boy :\
lol

[Alex]

GOD! I've liked this girl for four years and only now I'm beginning to make progress!


I liked this girl for about 3 and half years and never made progress.

Not a thing.

Idiot.

[digital*aria]

GOD! I've liked this girl for four years and only now I'm beginning to make progress!


I liked this girl for about 3 and half years and never made progress.

Not a thing.

Idiot.



thats not always a good thing, liking someone for that long of a time and never making progress. because you dont know if they feel the same way or not, and if they dont, it would just be wasted energy when you could have found someone else in that time who DOES feel the same way you do.

just a warning... im not agreeing with your 'idiot' comment by the way, because youre definitely not an idiot. maybe just shy?

[Alex]

GOD! I've liked this girl for four years and only now I'm beginning to make progress!


I liked this girl for about 3 and half years and never made progress.

Not a thing.

Idiot.



thats not always a good thing, liking someone for that long of a time and never making progress. because you dont know if they feel the same way or not, and if they dont, it would just be wasted energy when you could have found someone else in that time who DOES feel the same way you do.

just a warning... im not agreeing with your 'idiot' comment by the way, because youre definitely not an idiot. maybe just shy?



I realised she didnt like me the same way i did some 6 months after we met. Needless to say it was a BIG waste of time.

If thats not idiocy, i dont know what it is.

[boombagirl]

i like someone



it's edward cullen



i'm joking... but yeah i like someone

[Kamayo369]

i like someone



it's edward cullen



i'm joking... but yeah i like someone


I've got loads of friends tht are actually in love with Edward Cullen... I'm worried about them.

[staceylala]

I've got loads of friends tht are actually in love with Edward Cullen... I'm worried about them.


Same... and they're 18... Shame isn't it

[Kamayo369]

the girl I fancy is one of them ¬¬

[staceylala]

the girl I fancy is one of them ¬¬


The answer is obvious... Dress up as Eddy. C.

Now, you see if he was actually called Eddy. C, he wouldnt suck as much.

[digital*aria]

i like someone



it's edward cullen



i'm joking... but yeah i like someone


I've got loads of friends tht are actually in love with Edward Cullen... I'm worried about them.


funny you mention that too. my friends were looking up pictures of this guy who is on Gossip Girl (blech) and someone said 'ooh look up Rob Pattinson!' so they were all drooling over him...

hes not THAT hot, people! ...jeez...

[Jo_The_Marten]

I've got loads of friends tht are actually in love with Edward Cullen... I'm worried about them.
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funny you mention that too. my friends were looking up pictures of this guy who is on Gossip Girl (blech) and someone said 'ooh look up Rob Pattinson!' so they were all drooling over him...

hes not THAT hot, people! ...jeez...


My sister makes jokes whenever she sees girls going nuts over Ed. "OMG EDWARD CULLEN *swoon*" "(my sister) OMG CEDRIC DIGGORY!" "..." It makes me lol considering Cedric got pwned.

As for me, I'm not an Edward fan or a Twilight fan. I have my own...interests....*omn omn omn*

[boombagirl]

i like someone



it's edward cullen



i'm joking... but yeah i like someone


I've got loads of friends tht are actually in love with Edward Cullen... I'm worried about them.


funny you mention that too. my friends were looking up pictures of this guy who is on Gossip Girl (blech) and someone said 'ooh look up Rob Pattinson!' so they were all drooling over him...

hes not THAT hot, people! ...jeez...



i actually hate him, but if you guys don't understand joke, it isn't my problem

[lozluvsdaftpunk]

I Hate him too!
But, if everyone else didnt like him, id probablly like him.
I like hating things people love for some reason :)

[boombagirl]

^ agree

[Sargas]

Edward Cullen can go suck my male reproductive organ. Except I don't have one.

This whole "Twilight Boys" obsession is going too far. Now, I can't even walk into Hot Topic without getting bombarded with Edward Cullen and Jacob Black merchandise. It's making me rather sick.

I'd rather be with a happy guy on this forum. Thank God I am. :]

[piroteki]

Edward Cullen can go suck my male reproductive organ. Except I don't have one.

This whole "Twilight Boys" obsession is going too far. Now, I can't even walk into Hot Topic without getting bombarded with Edward Cullen and Jacob Black merchandise. It's making me rather sick.

I'd rather be with a happy guy on this forum. Thank God I am. :]

uh. that was already the case before the movie came out.

i remember my friend took a picture of one of the shirts... some quote that could be interpreted as creepily stalkerish, and txt'd it to a handful of her friends. (including me. lolwtf) just to be like "lololol twilight"

(but me, too. teehee~)

[boutboulman]

I'd rather be with a happy guy on this forum. Thank God I am. :]



(but me, too. teehee~)


Allright, that's it, stop it you two!! You're not allowed to post in this forum.
Pff, show offs...

[piroteki]

I'd rather be with a happy guy on this forum. Thank God I am. :]



(but me, too. teehee~)


Allright, that's it, stop it you two!! You're not allowed to post in this forum.
Pff, show offs...

pft. like you're allowed either. :P

[CuBuLo]

Im pretty sure that the girl I have liked for years likes somebody else who is NOTHING like me at all. My cousin stiole my phone and sent her a hideous picture of me to her. I also feel bad cause I always end up saying stupid stuff that doesn't make sense to her and she always responds "Okay?" :( But I have been friends with her forever and If she new I liked her it could mess up our friendship :( IM SCREWED!!!

[Kamayo369]

OMG! The girl I like found out I like her somehow. She's been telling everyone in school! She hasn't said a word to me yet but I'm completely dreading the moment she queries me about it. My whole mind is focused on the worst that could happen; I actually began to feel sick earlier just thinking about it! :(

[boombagirl]

i love someone but he hates me. because of my jokes. my bad.

[Psylark]

Wow. The girl I liked...for a whole 2 years...Didn't even notice. I used to blush every time I talked to her, and was also embarrassed around her. But she hadn't noticed! She didn't like me anyway...I'm going for other girls now...

[tohis]

It kind of sucks when you kinda sorta develop a crush on a guy (or girl) from your work/class/something, and you happen to be the only girl (or guy) at your work/class/something, with over twenty guys (or girls) at your work/class/something.
... cough. Yeah.

And fffffuuu-- I hate it when pretty much all of my friends have their own significant others and they just go on and on about how fantastic it is when you have someone you love & who loves you too. Like, shut up now or I'm gonna go emo! :(

But being single does have it advantages, too, especially if you happen to like, uhm, adventures? ;>

[Kamayo369]

Yay! the girl I like knows I fancy her now but it changes nothing! I'm not ready to ask her out quite yet but I'm certainly gonna have a lot more confidence in myself because I was really paranoid before.

:) !happy (l)

[staceylala]

And fffffuuu-- I hate it when pretty much all of my friends have their own significant others and they just go on and on about how fantastic it is when you have someone you love & who loves you too. Like, shut up now or I'm gonna go emo! :(

But being single does have it advantages, too, especially if you happen to like, uhm, adventures? ;>


It's really irritating isn't it lol. Al that lovey dovey gushy stuff lol.
I like the way you phrased that ;) lol, Adventures. Yeah being single is great fun lol.

[DeadDuck]

Bah.

[CJVercetti]

My girl and I decided to be "just friends" *sigh* :(

and by decided I mean SHE decided.

[Australian]

My cousin stiole my phone and sent her a hideous picture of me to her.


Wow annoying experience

[R0B0T]

And fffffuuu-- I hate it when pretty much all of my friends have their own significant others and they just go on and on about how fantastic it is when you have someone you love & who loves you too. Like, shut up now or I'm gonna go emo! :(

But being single does have it advantages, too, especially if you happen to like, uhm, adventures? ;>


It's really irritating isn't it lol. Al that lovey dovey gushy stuff lol.
I like the way you phrased that ;) lol, Adventures. Yeah being single is great fun lol.


I agree with Stacey, it's fun but in my case, usually most guys don't have any interest in me because I'm not so ~*~*pretty and attractive~*~*. Also, I'm too shy to make a move, so... :<

[tomatorama]

I know what you look like and I think you're pretty R0B0T :3

[tohis]

And fffffuuu-- I hate it when pretty much all of my friends have their own significant others and they just go on and on about how fantastic it is when you have someone you love & who loves you too. Like, shut up now or I'm gonna go emo! :(

But being single does have it advantages, too, especially if you happen to like, uhm, adventures? ;>


It's really irritating isn't it lol. Al that lovey dovey gushy stuff lol.
I like the way you phrased that ;) lol, Adventures. Yeah being single is great fun lol.


I agree with Stacey, it's fun but in my case, usually most guys don't have any interest in me because I'm not so ~*~*pretty and attractive~*~*. Also, I'm too shy to make a move, so... :<


You, my dear friend, are the kind of a lady many guys (and girls and everything in between) would amputate their legs for. Trust me, as I've seen you in ze real life. ;P Though yes, being too shy sucks. : ( But what bad would happen if you just go and ask a guy if he'd like to have a cup of coffee with you? He'd go mad and bite you? I don't think so. ; )

[DeadDuck]

And fffffuuu-- I hate it when pretty much all of my friends have their own significant others and they just go on and on about how fantastic it is when you have someone you love & who loves you too. Like, shut up now or I'm gonna go emo! :(

But being single does have it advantages, too, especially if you happen to like, uhm, adventures? ;>


It's really irritating isn't it lol. Al that lovey dovey gushy stuff lol.
I like the way you phrased that ;) lol, Adventures. Yeah being single is great fun lol.


I agree with Stacey, it's fun but in my case, usually most guys don't have any interest in me because I'm not so ~*~*pretty and attractive~*~*. Also, I'm too shy to make a move, so... :<


You, my dear friend, are the kind of a lady many guys (and girls and everything in between) would amputate their legs for. Trust me, as I've seen you in ze real life. ;P Though yes, being too shy sucks. : ( But what bad would happen if you just go and ask a guy if he'd like to have a cup of coffee with you? He'd go mad and bite you? I don't think so. ; )


Seriously, what I wouldn't give for a girl to ask me something like that.

[staceylala]

ROBOT, you are very pretty, plus your hair is awesome :D

[digital*aria]

ROBOT, you are very pretty, plus your hair is awesome :D


and the faces you always make in your pictures are oh-too-cute to resist =P

[R0B0T]

:'D

Thanks all. I'm glad there is people who thinks I'm pretty.


You, my dear friend, are the kind of a lady many guys (and girls and everything in between) would amputate their legs for. Trust me, as I've seen you in ze real life. ;P Though yes, being too shy sucks. : ( But what bad would happen if you just go and ask a guy if he'd like to have a cup of coffee with you? He'd go mad and bite you? I don't think so. ; )

Aw, thanks tohis. Your post made me SMILE irl.
It's hard for me to approach a totally unknown guy and I just feel awkward. It's easier though if when I'm with somebody or when I'm *ahem* drunk... but then again that just makes me look stupid and embarrasing blahblah.
I have to remember your advice next time when I see a nice guy. ;D

[staceylala]

It's easier though if when I'm with somebody or when I'm *ahem* drunk... but then again that just makes me look stupid and embarrasing blahblah.



Same (about the being drunk part atleast lol) I find it more embarrasing when my mate are there, mainly because they all take the piss lol.

Oh Gee, I just got 21 bloody questions from my mum about a certian guy I may have 'accidentally' kissed last friday lmfao

[boombagirl]

stacey... your moms crazy.

[staceylala]

Lol tell me about it.
Though I'm glad I take after her though rather then my Dad, he's a little emo lol.

[boombagirl]

my friends are villager emo's. if you ask what it is, they're not really rich... but try to be emo... gosh.

[hani]

OH MY GOD I'm so totally in love with this girl from my school... I had a huge crush on her last year but now when the crush is gone I realised that I love her... but I think she doesn't love me back. that sucks.

[melkoret]

Hani how well do you know this girl?

Really knowing someone is loving them. From a certain point of view at least. So then I ask; does she know you very well?

Yah gotta definitely go talk to her bunches! If yah have stuff in common, great! Find out more! See if she's worthy, if shes the kinda girl who sticks with a guy when he's 75 years old and smells like rotten death lol..

[hani]

well, we had this little sparkle between us last summer but later she said she's not into it that much...

and now, after some time, I thought she maybe felt something... but I'm sure she didn't, because I just spoke with her sister... and she told me that there ain't gonna be anything between us now.

I feel really bad about it.

[boombagirl]

good luck with that... i hope you date with her one day...

[Kamayo369]

good luck Hani, I'm sure you must have at least some chance :) .

I really don't think I've got a chance in my love life, she knows I like her but I haven't told her how deep it goes. She told me she doesn't handle well in relationships and she's been holding off any dating until she goes to college. I'd rather not tell her exactly how I feel, one - she may not feel the same way; and two -I don't want to force her into a relationship if she's not comfortable.

Either way I lose out :(

[Aimforthehead]

You know what I hate?
When you finally become friends with a guy who's really cool, friendly, and you have a lot in common with. And then he randomly starts going out with your best friend, when they have absolutely nothing in common, crushing what little glimmer of hope I had in the process. I try not to feel jealous, because that's just so typical and lame, but sometimes I can't help it. I feel like a third wheel. Well. I AM a third wheel. Lunch for me is sitting across the table from them. Lmao. Tricycle. I'm not like...angry or anything. Just feel lonely a little, I guess.
*sobs*
Nah, just kidding. I'm just venting, haha.

[digital*aria]

well, if it IS just a crush, maybe they will figure out that they arent right for each other, so when the guy gets upset when he's trying to get over your friend, you can comfort him and try to ease your way in. =D

just a thought.

[Aimforthehead]

Rofl. XD
I think it's just a crush on my side too, really. I'll get over it sooner than later, most likely. Like I said, I was just venting. Almost didn't bother posting it.
Anyways, they seem pretty happy atm (opposites attract I guess). I don't want to mess it up. D: I've never been into drama, don't want to start now. :P

[JPML014]

You know what sucks?
That I am composing a song which will most probably get me the girl I want as a girlfriend, but right after I finish the lyrics and begin composing the music....

NOTHING...Just pure, awful Writer's Block. I need inspiration, right now.

[digital*aria]

i cant guarantee that composing a song will get you a girlfriend, but if you need any help, im sure (i, myself) and other people on here would be willing to help you with your writers block / lend some inspiration.

[boombagirl]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

[Psylark]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

[boombagirl]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

whoa, really? wow... good luck with it.

[JPML014]

i cant guarantee that composing a song will get you a girlfriend, but if you need any help, im sure (i, myself) and other people on here would be willing to help you with your writers block / lend some inspiration.


Yeah, I know that song won't get me her, but it's gonna be part of a final step. It's like a big strategy I made up.

BTW, when listening to Something About Us, inspiration filled myself. I instantly got a lot of ideas. Thank God for Daft Punk!

[Kamayo369]

I feel like a complete idiot! The girl I like asked me out today and I said 'maybe'! WHY THE F*** COULDN'T I JUST SAY YES?! I've been pissing myself since that moment but then she got one of her friends to tell me she just wanted to be friends with me instead. Not that that doesn't make me happy, I just wish I'd taken the opportunity when she offered it to me.

*sigh* :(

[CJVercetti]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

[boutboulman]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

[staceylala]

lfmao 95.
Is it just me who doesn't really believe in love?

[Alex]

lfmao 95.
Is it just me who doesn't really believe in love?

When i feel it ill believe it.

[CJVercetti]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

Well in one WORK day so technically... 8 hours...

But yeah it's easy for me to fall in love...

[Alex]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

Well in one WORK day so technically... 8 hours...

But yeah it's easy for me to fall in love...


Where would we be without 5 minute crushes, eh?

[staceylala]

lfmao 95.
Is it just me who doesn't really believe in love?

When i feel it ill believe it.


I don't mean it in a bitter way, I mean it like... To me it's something that society has made up to make people feel better and think "Hang on a minute, I should be in love" like to make people 'fit' into society.
I believe in lust, which then moves onto a deep friendship and understanding and then perhaps companionship.

[boombagirl]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

Well in one WORK day so technically... 8 hours...

But yeah it's easy for me to fall in love...

8 seconds to fall in love...

[Alex]

lfmao 95.
Is it just me who doesn't really believe in love?

When i feel it ill believe it.


I don't mean it in a bitter way, I mean it like... To me it's something that society has made up to make people feel better and think "Hang on a minute, I should be in love" like to make people 'fit' into society.
I believe in lust, which then moves onto a deep friendship and understanding and then perhaps companionship.



Never felt that tbh. Its a bit stupid to be rejected by some social group because you dont have a girlfriend/boyfriend or because you aint in love.

[staceylala]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

Well in one WORK day so technically... 8 hours...

But yeah it's easy for me to fall in love...

8 seconds to fall in love...



It's not really 'love' though is it lol
It a case of 'you think that girl is hot' lol

[CJVercetti]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

Well in one WORK day so technically... 8 hours...

But yeah it's easy for me to fall in love...

8 seconds to fall in love...



It's not really 'love' though is it lol
It a case of 'you think that girl is hot' lol


No I wanted to marry them and have a family with them. Every single one......... *sigh*

[staceylala]

lfmao 95.
Is it just me who doesn't really believe in love?

When i feel it ill believe it.


I don't mean it in a bitter way, I mean it like... To me it's something that society has made up to make people feel better and think "Hang on a minute, I should be in love" like to make people 'fit' into society.
I believe in lust, which then moves onto a deep friendship and understanding and then perhaps companionship.



Never felt that tbh. Its a bit stupid to be rejected by some social group because you dont have a girlfriend/boyfriend or because you aint in love.



I don't personally think that I need to be in 'love' or even in a relationship to be accepted by society, I just think that the way the world is now I think a lot of people feel that they NEED a partner to be happy, which isn't the case.
The most important things to me are my friends, family and career, then I will start to think about relationships, but it's not the be all and end all. If it happens it happens, But I don't believe the word 'LOVE' has much meaning.

[tohis]

Ah, it's fascinating to read this, as I'm both a horrible romanticist and a cynic:
- Sorry, but I (the cynic) don't think what CJVercetti feels [for those "one in eight seconds" ladies] is love. Maybe some deep emotion, like a huge crush, but not love (or at least not the traditional, stereotypical, whateverical love). (Or maybe I'm just jealous because I seem to be unable to fall in love... :B)

- Staceylala's view on love makes me (the romanticist) go a little sad in a way, because I still believe there must be some kind of love to be able to care so deeply for someone that you can live with them for years, enduring all their bad habits, etc etc etc. Idk. (It's moments like these that I remember my Grandpa who's always calling for "mamma" (which was a sort of a nickname for his wife (= my Grandma)), even though said mamma died over five years ago. Sad but sweet, innit? :< )

Any views on the matter from people who are married or otherwise "know Real Love"? ;)

[staceylala]

- Staceylala's view on love makes me (the romanticist) go a little sad in a way, because I still believe there must be some kind of love to be able to care so deeply for someone that you can live with them for years, enduring all their bad habits, etc etc etc. Idk. (It's moments like these that I remember my Grandpa who's always calling for "mamma" (which was a sort of a nickname for his wife (= my Grandma)), even though said mamma died over five years ago. Sad but sweet, innit? :< )



No No, I know what you mean, I think that you can being completely careing for someone to ignore their faults and all the rest, I just don't think it's a necessity. I think it's more of a companionship and understanding, I just don't like to discribe is with the word love.
It's like I don't believe in celebrating Valentines day either, I feel it's a corperate thing and anyone who NEEDS a card or a teddy or flowers from their partner doesn't really know that deep friendship. You shouldn't have to buy things to show you care, if you understand what I mean.

[Psylark]

sometimes i hate crushes. they're sometimes needless.

Yeah...I have about 4 crushes at a time...

it's okay I counted the number of girls I fell in love with in one work day and the total was 95...

You fell in love NINETY-FIVE TIMES in one day?? :P

Well in one WORK day so technically... 8 hours...

But yeah it's easy for me to fall in love...


Where would we be without 5 minute crushes, eh?


In an extremely bored state of mind.

Well, I know I would be. Sometimes in bored lessons the only things that are good are the girls. Yeahhh...And it helps if they don't see you looking. Err. Obviously.

[tohis]

- Staceylala's view on love makes me (the romanticist) go a little sad in a way, because I still believe there must be some kind of love to be able to care so deeply for someone that you can live with them for years, enduring all their bad habits, etc etc etc. Idk. (It's moments like these that I remember my Grandpa who's always calling for "mamma" (which was a sort of a nickname for his wife (= my Grandma)), even though said mamma died over five years ago. Sad but sweet, innit? :< )



No No, I know what you mean, I think that you can being completely careing for someone to ignore their faults and all the rest, I just don't think it's a necessity. I think it's more of a companionship and understanding, I just don't like to discribe is with the word love.
It's like I don't believe in celebrating Valentines day either, I feel it's a corperate thing and anyone who NEEDS a card or a teddy or flowers from their partner doesn't really know that deep friendship. You shouldn't have to buy things to show you care, if you understand what I mean.



Ah, now when you put it THAT [Valentine's Day] way - yes, I do understand. It's more about what you say and do, rather than how expensive a diamond ring you give your SO on their birthday. Etc.
(Why does (social/love) life have to be so damn hard? I like it The Sims way: "YOU - click - fall in love with - click - THIS dude - click! Yay!")

[digital*aria]

I like it The Sims way: "YOU - click - fall in love with - click - THIS dude - click! Yay!")


this. is totally awesome.


and you are right, what you said before, that this conversation is turning out to be quite fascinating indeed. my views are a little bit of the sides already discussed here:

i dont believe in love at first sight. THIS i would consider lust. however, one must consider that "love," the word, has different meanings.

there is the "love" as you would care for/appreciate/feel toward family members and friends. you "love" someone like a sister and that person has connections with you and vice versa.

there is the "love" as you would feel toward an object or an event or an action. you feel connected to everything around you and your fondness of those things can spark strong emotions. in this sense, love would mean the pleasure or happiness you get out of something, because you are greatly enjoying it.

and there is the "love" that you would feel towards a soul mate or a partner. a devoted love, a bonded love, and a love that is built upon the connections you have with that partner- deep connections that would allow you to.. quite frankly.. put up with them for a very long time. (because everyone has at least ONE thing they don't favor about their partner. admit it.)

notice i said a form of the word 'connect' in all three paragraphs. in my opinion, love is all about connections. the more you are attached and bonded to something, the more you can feel a strong emotion towards it that can be described as "love." love can also be about sacrifice (something i wont go into) and about willingness to accommodate.

personally, i believe that unless you can live with someone and share their experiences and truly understand them (notice i didnt say 'truly get to know them,' because that is ultimately impossible- another thing i wont go into), then you cannot REALLY "love" someone in anyway more than the first two types of "love" i listed. (and most people WOULD want to "love" someone in the third way.)

[Alex]

I agree and i disagree with you, aria.

I agree on the fact that the "love" you feel when you see a good looking girl and you start chit chatting with her, isnt love.

I also agree that love isnt getting laid. Sure, theres that intimassy, but it isnt as bonding or connective as actual and proper love.

I disagree on the fact that love has to be a very intimate relashionship. Most breakups and divorces happen several years of being together, because the couples keep finding more and more stuff that they dont want to know about, and with that come the disagreements about certain actions and certain personality issues that were unknown.

To me love has to be intimate, but not TOO intimate.



I think i just messed this whole talk up, but o well.

[JPML014]

I think I am a neurotic individual, but I believe that true love exists for a very short time. Eternal love doesn't exist.

[CuBuLo]

I would ask somebody out but im extremely shy and I keep tellin myself I will do it and I never do :(

[JPML014]

I would ask somebody out but im extremely shy and I keep tellin myself I will do it and I never do :(


Kinda the same with me :(

[Psylark]

I would ask somebody out but im extremely shy and I keep tellin myself I will do it and I never do :(


Kinda the same with me :(

First girl I asked out I did through another girl...Haha...first mistake I made there...But I didn't know her that well really.

Now the girl I asked to ask out somebody...I really like...and...now I need a good oppurtunity to ask her out...BUT SHE'S GOING TO AMERICA! If you catch her, turn her around and turn her back for me. kthxbai.

Also, try, even if you know there's a possibility they may say no - better to have tried than have never known

[JPML014]

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Also, try, even if you know there's a possibility they may say no - better to have tried than have never known

That hurts like hell to hear when you were about to try but couldn't get the chance.


I'm like in an emo state right now, because the girl which was the number one candidate for my next girlfriend (which actually took me ages to find) went on some sort of vacation and got a boyfriend there. And I feel horrible because I keep blaming myself of having taken too long to make the next move. Stupid me.

[boombagirl]

falling in love is weird.

[Efun]

Yes, boombagirl. It is very strange... Although its never REALLY happned to me.

[destroyer9887]

true dat, true dat...

[staceylala]

Well if you think about it, it's not strange at all. Evenually, everyone falls in 'love' or whatever you wanna call it. Even with an object, I'm sure many of you have an object or something of the like thats dear to you and you love, it's a common phenomenon (spl?lol)

[destroyer9887]

well thats one way to put it but if ur the shy type then its rly akward (and im not sayin that i am)

[boombagirl]

love. needless. because it's hurting.

[ArnoFR]

She left me yesterday night :/
We've been together one week even if we knew each other for 1 month she had a crush on me last week...but it didn't work, she was too much in love with me, me too but she realized than she still had senses for her ex-boyfriend...I'm kinda weird this morning :/

[boombagirl]

what? she feels something about her ex?
...no comments.

[Efun]

Love is apparently a hard thing... I only went out with 2 people. I never felt true love for either.

[ArnoFR]

what? she feels something about her ex?
...no comments.

Yep...

Her ex is in my class, not really a friend of mine but he didn't care about the fact that we (me & his ex ~ me and my gf) could go out together...he also gave me advises to as to be as long as I can with her (about her feelings, attitudes etc.), but he was happy for us...but yesterday when I told her goodbye, she was very 'cold', she told me she had to think a lot, about us, about her, I didn't want to think this could end until she announced me she still feels something for her ex...
She had a crush on me too fastly, once she left her boyfriend she wanted to be with me, we waited a week to go out together, I knew it was too fast for her but she was sure and wanted more than everything to be with me, so I thought this relationship could go far for a very long time.

But at 00:20 she typed a messsage saying that she could prefer to stop now instead of stopping in 6 months...
This morning she called me saying she was sorry, I said she chose the best thing for her, I couldn't say anything about her choice, I respect it, but I also added I won't be so close from her even if she'd like us to become real friends, I dunno if I should stay with her as a friend, I don't really want and I think that'd hurt me a lot :/

[Alex]

I think you should stay friends, 1 week isnt really enough to get too intimate, so akwardness shouldnt be too much when together.

But eventually, you'll get over it quickly and you can be good friends, like before.

[ArnoFR]

I'm not sure I could be friend like before...:/
She wants, but not me...that wouldn't be as fun as before when we were discovering each other...everything was 'magic'.

One week is short, but she was too much in love, I felt it, she already planned to go with me in holidays this summer (in a house in Spain), she called me 'the man of my life', 'I love you more than everything' etc. so I thought something was going wrong, everything was too perfect to continue, then I got the answer yesterday.

At the moment, I don't really want to see her again...but I will because she's in the same school, every day I'll see her face and I'll wonder why she changed her mind, but I'd rather forget her forever...

[Alex]

It is tough. But to be honest, everyone says those things when they are in love. You cant really rate the amount of love she felt just because of those sentences.

But if you really want to be sure, take a good time, grab her, drag her out to somewhere far from others (be gentle though) and pretty much persuade her to tell you why she changed her mind.

[ArnoFR]

It is tough. But to be honest, everyone says those things when they are in love. You cant really rate the amount of love she felt just because of those sentences.

It's true, we always say that, but I souldn't have believed in what she said...I should have thought this is always the same ritual ^^



But if you really want to be sure, take a good time, grab her, drag her out to somewhere far from others (be gentle though) and pretty much persuade her to tell you why she changed her mind.


Yes, you're right !
I'll do that, to have a good explanation because it's not so easy to say everything by the phone, it's better to be 'face to face' :)

Thanks a lot mate ! ;)

[staceylala]

I know I don't really know the situation you're in fully, but I don't see why, eventually, you can't be exactly as you were with her. I mean, I dated me ex for 2 months before we split, and in many ways, we're closer than we were when we were together. And if she's not grown up enough to want to be your friend, then you don't need her in your life. It's just hassle.

[destroyer9887]

well ya thts true. if u ask someone out and they decline, it could ruin a good friendship :)

[ArnoFR]

I know I don't really know the situation you're in fully, but I don't see why, eventually, you can't be exactly as you were with her. I mean, I dated me ex for 2 months before we split, and in many ways, we're closer than we were when we were together. And if she's not grown up enough to want to be your friend, then you don't need her in your life. It's just hassle.

I can't...it won't be the same, I'm in 2 states of mind...I'd like never to see her again, but I'd like to get her back because I still love her (weird heh?)...I'll split the different, I will see her everyday but I won't talk too much. :/
I think this is the best way not to be sad...

I agree with destroyer9887, that ruined our frendship, for my part, maybe she'll want to talk to me again but I don't want to do the same mistake to be too close to her, to go out with her for a few days and then to be jilted.

The most unbearable thing is that she chatted me up, I didn't do anything, and now she changed her mind :S

[Efun]

Did you have a go at her? Knowing me, i would've done :B

[ArnoFR]

Not yet, I went at her but we didn't...[yet].
I didn't want to urge her, but if I had known that would end soon, I would have...no I'm kidding, I just wanted a serious relationship, plus she's not a girl 'easy to pull' (sorry to be rude) so I have been respecting her every time we were together...

[piroteki]

it's a lot harder now since you've only just broken up. i'm sure your feelings about whether you can remain friends or not might change a little as time goes on. as you get over it, you might feel better about being able to stay friends. or you might not. it's your choice, after all. but just realize that some of the things you think now are going to be influenced by the hurt and disappointment you're feeling because the breakup just happened.

best to you!

[ArnoFR]

it's a lot harder now since you've only just broken up. i'm sure your feelings about whether you can remain friends or not might change a little as time goes on. as you get over it, you might feel better about being able to stay friends. or you might not. it's your choice, after all. but just realize that some of the things you think now are going to be influenced by the hurt and disappointment you're feeling because the breakup just happened.

best to you!

Absolutely :)

Thanks a lot, you're right, I'll see what will happen without worrying if I could be with her again or if I should forget her.

Thanks again, I feel a little bit better after what you've all said, now I'm just telling me "She's one among others...".

[ArnoFR]

lol

She called me 5 mins ago, she was crying because the guy she left me for (her ex actually) doesn't care about her now because can't trust her now.

Finally, I'm getting fine, nah...I'm really fine now, she's sad so she only has what she deserves ! :)

I told her this couldn't be the same as when we were together, she agreed but she is very sad now, everything is clear now, she's alone, I'm alone, she's sad but I'm finally fine :)

[thehumanrobot]

lol

She called me 5 mins ago, she was crying because the guy she left me for (her ex actually) doesn't care about her now because can't trust her now.

Finally, I'm getting fine, nah...I'm really fine now, she's sad so she only has what she deserves ! :)

I told her this couldn't be the same as when we were together, she agreed but she is very sad now, everything is clear now, she's alone, I'm alone, she's sad but I'm finally fine :)



THAT JUST RECENTLY HAPPENED TO ME ARNO! some girl i have been with for a while, i caught hookin up with some dude but then, two days later, shes cryin on the phone how that guy "broke her heart" and, I told that hoe, "go f**k yourself, whore". and hung up. right thing to do? it sure satisfied me. :-) haha

[ArnoFR]

Haha! :D

I didn't tell her that, she would have comitted a suicide, but I really thought :D

I tried to be calm, to speak clearly, to advise her to take her time before picking a guy, but I won't hesitate to 'throw her' if she wants to get closer to me in the future :)

[thehumanrobot]

hehe well I guess I did take it a little far now didnt I?

OH WELL

[JPML014]

two days later, shes cryin on the phone how that guy "broke her heart" and, I told that hoe, "go f**k yourself, whore". and hung up.

That sounds like a delicious thing to say.

[thehumanrobot]

That sounds like a delicious thing to say.


hahahaha i thought so too

[staceylala]

You see, this is why I don't delve into relationships.

[ArnoFR]

hehe well I guess I did take it a little far now didnt I?

OH WELL

Yeah I think lol :D

I saw her on the street, we just said hello to each other without talking a lot, she seemed to be furious, mad, whereas I was kinda happy and grinning a lot :p

[destroyer9887]

ya thts funny but u might hve gone 2 far

[ArnoFR]

ya thts funny but u might hve gone 2 far

Who went to far ? Me to be happy 2 days after being jilted or her who jilted me 1 week after we were together because she realized she had feelings for her ex she left suddenly for me ? Hm...I'm wondering ^^

[destroyer9887]

not u arno, thehumanrobot with the whole "go f*** urself b****" thing

[CuBuLo]

Im in another love situation. I still like the same girl as before but there is another girl Im starting to develop the slightest feelings for but most people at my school find her annoying and obnoxious and Im afraid to tell anybody for my own reputation :(

[digital*aria]

Im in another love situation. I still like the same girl as before but there is another girl Im starting to develop the slightest feelings for but most people at my school find her annoying and obnoxious and Im afraid to tell anybody for my own reputation :(

wait a while to see if those new feelings develop further. this might just be a temporary thing. if in a few weeks youre liking her more and more and the feeling overwhelms that of the first girl, it really shouldnt matter if everyone else thinks she is weird. your feelings towards her are the only ones that matter. you should be proud of yourself that youre open minded and caring enough to even see past everyone else's opinions for what she is inside.


*end rant*


it always feels weird whenever i attempt to give relationship advice. man, can i just quote Avenue Q right now? please?

"I'm kinda pretty. And pretty damn smart. I like romantic things like music and art! And as you know I have a gigantic heart. So whyyyyyyyyyyyy don't I have a boyfriend?! F*** IT SUCKS TO BE ME!"

[boutboulman]

"I'm kinda pretty. And pretty damn smart. I like romantic things like music and art! And as you know I have a gigantic heart. So whyyyyyyyyyyyy don't I have a boyfriend?! F*** IT SUCKS TO BE ME!"
Haha, is that how you actually feel per chance!?

[spamwichx]

I'm friends with quite a few guys, but I only like them as friends :)
When I like a guy they usually don't like me back.
So bleh.

[piroteki]

I'm friends with quite a few guys, but I only like them as friends :)
When I like a guy they usually don't like me back.
So bleh.
yeah, i'm a little the same way. bu~ut, i think being able to be friends with guys gives you extra points in the potential-girlfriend area. after all, wouldn't it be a bonus for a guy if he can actually talk about some "guy stuff" (sports, videogames, etc.) around his girlfriend without her being totally bored by it?

so yeah, maybe it hasn't worked out so far, but i bet something will turn up sooner or later. just keep being yourself and enjoy your guy friends as friends for now.

[Alex]

I'm friends with quite a few guys, but I only like them as friends :)
When I like a guy they usually don't like me back.
So bleh.

Same, except my problem is with girls.

[boombagirl]

i look pretty too, but i think i'm really serious so people don't like me much.

[digital*aria]

"I'm kinda pretty. And pretty damn smart. I like romantic things like music and art! And as you know I have a gigantic heart. So whyyyyyyyyyyyy don't I have a boyfriend?! F*** IT SUCKS TO BE ME!"
Haha, is that how you actually feel per chance!?


no, hah. im perfectly fine being single. im young- why rush into anything?

[melkoret]

i love you too forum

[boutboulman]

You should be sorry, stop showing off in the thread for people less well off than you. Honestly.
You can post in here after your divorce.

[boombagirl]

1 thing:
good luck with your marriage :).

[ArnoFR]

You should be sorry, stop showing off in the thread for people less well off than you. Honestly.
You can post in here after your divorce.

Rough :/

It's not because some people are alone than they can't be happy for him...not everybody is sad or would be more by learning someone is getting married...

Otherwise, Congratulations melkoret !! :wink:
I wish you the best~

[melkoret]

You should be sorry, stop showing off in the thread for people less well off than you. Honestly.
You can post in here after your divorce.


Hey man :\
You should know im not trying to show off :<
Just havin a bit o fun. Marriage isnt a instant key to happyness anyways or anything.

Anyways sorry if that was in bad taste, I didnt mean it so/.
ttyl



Otherwise, Congratulations melkoret !! :wink:
I wish you the best~

Thank you very much, its gunna be a tough life lol :)
but if it wasnt with her It would be a lot worse in the end <3


1 thing:
good luck with your marriage :).

Thanks.

tips:

1. Find someone who has the same core basic beliefs as you.
This is 100000x more important than "we both love to skateboard and crack rascist jokes".

2. Make sure you BOTH are willing to compromise for each other. If not, its going to be a one sided relationship = No good.

3. Love is not a feeling. AT ALL.
Love is patient, kind, always forgiving, always hoping, never rude, and everlasting.
Yes its true no human is perfect, but striving for perfect love is definetly a good thing none-the-less.

---anyways if this should be in another thread, ill not post here. Just thought I'd throw ina bit of knowledge

[gaeM]

3. Love is not a feeling. AT ALL.
Love is patient, kind, always forgiving, always hoping, never rude, and everlasting.
Yes its true no human is perfect, but striving for perfect love is definetly a good thing none-the-less.

---anyways if this should be in another thread, ill not post here. Just thought I'd throw ina bit of knowledge

thats true...

[gaeM]

in fact, love only comes, if you're searching long trip ...

[staceylala]

You should be sorry, stop showing off in the thread for people less well off than you. Honestly.
You can post in here after your divorce.


I believe this is a good example of sarcasm... though, I don't blame anyone who wouldn't get it, It mostly doesn't work on the internet lol...

Then again, maybe Bout ment everyword and Mel shouldn't keep away from this miserable and self-pitying thread... :p

Anyways, I'm allowed to post because I'm single lol, not that I have a problem with that, I'm perfectly happy on my own.

[rarghgaafar]

i think i'll be single forever and end up marrying my cat...

[ArnoFR]

i think i'll be single forever and end up marrying my cat...

So...sad =P

[rarghgaafar]

So...sad =P

yayyyyy! :D

[DJPixcell]

well..

I'll always have my music?

(and xbox..) :'D?

[boutboulman]

Damn. Euhmm.. sorry. Apologies to melkoret, and anybody else offended. I was kinda joking, it's just in his original post he said "sorry etc.." and I thought it maybe saddening that you were celebrating in the thread specifically for people who are single. But I was being sarcastic. Especially about the unfortunate divorce comment. I obviously want your relationship to work out, and to be honest, from what I've heard about it, I particularly hope it works out.
So.. yeah. I feel bad, I really do.
I congratulated you on your marriage in another thread, and I meant it.
I think I'll leave it at that.
Sorry everyone.

[melkoret]

Hey NP man, thanks for the apology though.
Less drama even on the internet = good times :)


... and DJ Pixcell. Im sorry but "Home Alone with Wife" is the best multiplayer game ever, and its never coming to xbox :P

[DJPixcell]

Hey NP man, thanks for the apology though.
Less drama even on the internet = good times :)


... and DJ Pixcell. Im sorry but "Home Alone with Wife" is the best multiplayer game ever, and its never coming to xbox :P

haha Yeah I know.. :P

[CuBuLo]

Im in another love situation. I still like the same girl as before but there is another girl Im starting to develop the slightest feelings for but most people at my school find her annoying and obnoxious and Im afraid to tell anybody for my own reputation :(
Well I just found out that she likes me, right while Im starting to loose feelings for her. Should I still take a chance on her?

[spamwichx]

Well I just found out that she likes me, right while Im starting to loose feelings for her. Should I still take a chance on her?

Trust your gut feeling :)

[boombagirl]

i think you should be with her, because you loved her so much.
well, i'm still crawling for being alone. argh.

[Alex]

Well I just found out that she likes me, right while Im starting to loose feelings for her. Should I still take a chance on her?

Yes. Those feeling will come back if she says yes.

[Efun]

Wow Amq. That's got somat to do with being single. XD
I am single just to re-tell.

[r.e.m.y.]

what if i don't know if i'm single?

[CuBuLo]

Well I just found out that she likes me, right while Im starting to loose feelings for her. Should I still take a chance on her?
Never mind I have lost interest in her. But my love for the other girl grows daily. It would be weird to ask her out since where such good friends. It could mess my life up.

[r.e.m.y.]

arf finally i know that i'm single,hard to admit but life is life

but i'm so narrow minded about french girls...

[NiteShade]

alas i am single too... i ahvent had a girlfriend n what? 4 years? meh well all things shall come to pass soon. maybe we will all get lucky one day :D

[B.E.A.S.M]

Never mind I have lost interest in her. But my love for the other girl grows daily. It would be weird to ask her out since where such good friends. It could mess my life up.

I'd say relationships are actually more likely to be successful if you're friends first. But then again, what do I know? I'm hopeless in that department. :D

[upset_clown]

hmm... I guess im back in here now... my girlfriend broke up with me...

[digital*aria]

aww. im sorry to hear that, clown.

(psst. change your font color)

[ArnoFR]

hmm... I guess im back in here now... my girlfriend broke up with me...

Oh sorry...are you hurt or you were expecting this ? :/

[upset_clown]

aww. im sorry to hear that, clown.

(psst. change your font color)

I don't feel up to typing in green right now : (

[digital*aria]

omg awwww! *you deserve really big hugs right now*

[spamwichx]

I don't feel up to typing in green right now : (

Cheer up upset_clown :)
*Hugs
You should be a happy_clown :)

[Real Jazzy Cat]

Why make a thread for everyone on the internet?

I'm taken btw.

[Juniper]

well i'm single and in love with the perfect person for me who has a gf......I saw him tonight but he was off to go see Bruno with her....when will he realize that I am for him? WHEN???

[upset_clown]

omg awwww! *you deserve really big hugs right now*

Thanks : ). Im having an off week... A very off week...

[staceylala]

hmm... I guess im back in here now... my girlfriend broke up with me...

:( I'm sorry man.
We're here for you

[upset_clown]

:( I'm sorry man.
We're here for you

Thanks, im not doing too bad today.

[Da Funk]

Another single here! Recently I had a crush on a guy and I thought he felt the same way.. but then things got unclear (he was still seeing his ex -_-') and I asked him what he wanted, he said he didn't know but he was sure he didn't want a relationship at this time. So I decided to forget him, but some days later he sended me some textmessages: 'I'm stupid because I let such a sweet, nice girl go' (I still have to puke when I think about those messages =P).

To make a long story short: I'm over him.

[staceylala]

(I still have to puke when I think about those messages =P).

To make a long story short: I'm over him.

Lol I get like that when guys are all soppy too, yuk lol

Who needs BF/GF anyways, I say we all go out, get wasted and pass out! woo!! LOL

[Da Funk]

I say we all go out, get wasted and pass out! woo!! LOL

Passing out is a little too much for me, haha! =P

[ArnoFR]

Another single here! Recently I had a crush on a guy and I thought he felt the same way.. but then things got unclear (he was still seeing his ex -_-') and I asked him what he wanted, he said he didn't know but he was sure he didn't want a relationship at this time. So I decided to forget him, but some days later he sended me some textmessages: 'I'm stupid because I let such a sweet, nice girl go' (I still have to puke when I think about those messages =P).

To make a long story short: I'm over him.

Rough :/

Just forget him and find someone else, that's the best way to do, you should be with someone who loves you and you love, because if he tells you he's in love with you after saying what he told you, you'll always worry about his sincerity and about the fact if he still sees his ex or not...and you'll be always thinking about him and will always worry too much, you'll pretend to feel good whereas you won't ! I had the same problem. ;)

As far as I'm concerned, I'm a bit contentious...dunno what to do, I like a girl, she likes me but she's closer than me days after days.
She hugs me when she can, lil' smiles like a girl does to her bf...I'd like to tell her I don't want to go further, but if I tell her that she'll reply surely "You make a mistake, I don't want to go further neither, we're just friends, no more"...so I dunno.
I'd like to go out with a friend of her/me, this is my ex's ex best-friend, she's in L.A atm for holidays, she kinda likes me, and when I was with my ex in my ex's bedroom (she lives with flatmates), one day, she [the one I want to be with] was surprised to see me with her...and my ex told me she likes me a lot without knowing me. (we met each other later)

So...I don't wanna go further with the first one because the day I'll tell her I want to go out with my ex's ex best friend, she'll throw a trantum :D
So...dunno, I'm telling me, being single is not so bad, freedom, friends, no problems =D But I'll try anyway :lol:

[Da Funk]

Rough :/

Just forget him and find someone else, that's the best way to do, you should be with someone who loves you and you love, because if he tells you he's in love with you after saying what he told you, you'll always worry about his sincerity and about the fact if he still sees his ex or not...and you'll be always thinking about him and will always worry too much, you'll pretend to feel good whereas you won't ! I had the same problem. ;)

That's soo true! I was always worrying, and worrying doesn't exactly make you feel happy..


As far as I'm concerned, I'm a bit contentious...dunno what to do, I like a girl, she likes me but she's closer than me days after days.
She hugs me when she can, lil' smiles like a girl does to her bf...I'd like to tell her I don't want to go further, but if I tell her that she'll reply surely "You make a mistake, I don't want to go further neither, we're just friends, no more"...so I dunno.
I'd like to go out with a friend of her/me, this is my ex's ex best-friend, she's in L.A atm for holidays, she kinda likes me, and when I was with my ex in my ex's bedroom (she lives with flatmates), one day, she [the one I want to be with] was surprised to see me with her...and my ex told me she likes me a lot without knowing me. (we met each other later)

So...I don't wanna go further with the first one because the day I'll tell her I want to go out with my ex's ex best friend, she'll throw a trantum :D
So...dunno, I'm telling me, being single is not so bad, freedom, friends, no problems =D But I'll try anyway :lol:

My advice is to tell the first girl how you think about it and to be very clear. The guy I liked was so unclear and it made me crazy! After you told her try not to give her the idea that you still have feelings for her, because that propably gets her worrying.

And maybe then you can get to know girl 2 better? Without worrying so much about girl 1.

Hope this will help a bit :)
And yes, being single isn't that bad, but someone special is always welcome, right?

[ArnoFR]

That's soo true! I was always worrying, and worrying doesn't exactly make you feel happy..
Exactly ! =)



My advice is to tell the first girl how you think about it and to be very clear. The guy I liked was so unclear and it made me crazy! After you told her try not to give her the idea that you still have feelings for her, because that propably gets her worrying.

And maybe then you can get to know girl 2 better? Without worrying so much about girl 1.

Hope this will help a bit :)
And yes, being single isn't that bad, but someone special is always welcome, right?

You're right, I'll tell girl 1: "What is great with you, is that I know exactly what you feel for me and you know what I feel for you without ambiguity, we're friends without any ulterior motive". BAM, in the pocket ! :D

For girl 2, we should go out an evening with a few pals, she'll be there, in 1 or 2 weeks, then I'll jump in =) Otherwise I tell everyone I really like her (physically and morally), some are so dumb that they will tell her, then I see her reaction...but I prefer to do it myself, like a real man at my own risks ! :D

[Da Funk]

That sounds like the right thing to do! Good luck :)

[ArnoFR]

Thank you !! :)

[windwaker1994]

i'm confused. i enjoy being single. but everyone in my school is going out with someone and i like a girl and she likes me. and i'm worried that i no longer have the potential to get a girlfriend. so what should i try, girlfriend or single?

[windwaker1994]

well i'm single and in love with the perfect person for me who has a gf......I saw him tonight but he was off to go see Bruno with her....when will he realize that I am for him? WHEN???

probably around the time when him and his gf are done watching Bruno and it's so awkward after the movie cuz the movie's so awkward that he'll break up and look for the closest girl around. play your cards right, and you'll have him in no time. :D



... of course this plan could possibly go wrong somewhere along the line...


... nah...

[DJ_Sam_909]

i'm confused. i enjoy being single. but everyone in my school is going out with someone and i like a girl and she likes me. and i'm worried that i no longer have the potential to get a girlfriend. so what should i try, girlfriend or single?

If your that worried about it I think you should at least try your chances with this girl unless you want to wait for the right person to come along first? She could be the one, you'll never know unless you try.

I really like a girl who likes me back but it's kinda awkward coz my best friend is in love with her and she sort of hates him because they had a huge argument and I still kind of like someone I fancied for 4 and a half years who I only just managed to forget about knowing I had no chance :( but because I have such a bad love life I always get depressed and I feel I need to be with someone to stop me from feeling so depressed.

[staceylala]

i'm confused. i enjoy being single. but everyone in my school is going out with someone and i like a girl and she likes me. and i'm worried that i no longer have the potential to get a girlfriend. so what should i try, girlfriend or single?

I say go for it, see what happens, you only live once and if you don't try, you'll never know.

[boombagirl]

oh well, i want to find someone similar to me.
well this could be mean but all the pervert find me.

[ArnoFR]

oh well, i want to find someone similar to me.
well this could be mean but all the pervert find me.

Ahem...good luck :/

Personally I don't wanna be with someone similar, the girl has to 'teach'/show me things I ignore/don't do, differents mores are kinda great in a relationship, you learn everyday, and that's amazing ! =)

[piroteki]

Ahem...good luck :/

Personally I don't wanna be with someone similar, the girl has to 'teach'/show me things I ignore/don't do, differents mores are kinda great in a relationship, you learn everyday, and that's amazing ! =)
that's why they say opposites attract!

i agree, but obviously you have to have some commonalities between the two of you!

[melkoret]

:(....


*signs his name on this thread*

[Da Funk]

I have a really, really, not nice conversation on msn with the guy I told about before... I feel so bad like a little child that I have to cry!

It propably sounds stupid but I just had to say it :(

[staceylala]

lol, I haz a crush.

>.<

[spamwichx]

I have a really, really, not nice conversation on msn with the guy I told about before... I feel so bad like a little child that I have to cry!

It propably sounds stupid but I just had to say it :(

I've had one of those convos :(
*hugs.





I'm having one of those times when you're sick of crushing on Busy P, and you just wanna find a real one. Hhaha :)

[Da Funk]

Thanks for the hug!

It sucks to have a broken heart... :(
It's like 30 minutes past midnight here in Europe so I must go to bed soon.. don't think I can fall asleep though...

[spamwichx]

*Passes you some icecream.
Get some Daft Punk on your earphones and jump around for a while.
Could help :)

[NightShark]

:(....


*signs his name on this thread*
Oh s@#$. What happened?

[r.e.m.y.]

*Passes you some icecream.
Get some Daft Punk on your earphones and jump around for a while.
Could help :)

mmmmmmmm boys are scumbags

mmmmmmmm after all

mmmmmmmm here he's coming

mmmmmmmm (i'm gonna kick him in the nuts) after all

[R0B0T]

:(....


*signs his name on this thread*

!? D:




I'm having one of those times when you're sick of crushing on Busy P, and you just wanna find a real one. Hhaha :)

Same here except change Busy P to SebastiAn, hehe.

[windwaker1994]

mmmmmmmm boys are scumbags

mmmmmmmm after all

mmmmmmmm here he's coming

mmmmmmmm (i'm gonna kick him in the nuts) after all


...
...
... what?

[NightShark]

...
...
... what?
It's a parody of Human After All.

[Da Funk]

*Passes you some icecream.
Get some Daft Punk on your earphones and jump around for a while.
Could help :)

That's what I'm gonna do today! Daft Punk makes you happy after all... :)

With me, it always seems to end with somekind of a fight... do more people have this?

[ArnoFR]

Oh yeah ! =)
When I'm pissed off, or just feel kinda bad because time flies and I remember good moments I had with some friends in the past, or just because I tell me I've sh*t up to my neck because I haven't found a fckn company in which I'll work 3 days per week (+ 2 days at school ~ alternation courses) so I'm not sure to start next September, I listen to Daft Punk and everything becomes good :D

Otherwise, hm...to go out of Off Topic, I should see THE girl tonight =)

[Da Funk]

Otherwise, hm...to go out of Off Topic, I should see THE girl tonight =)

Aww! :) Good luck and have a lot of fun!

[ArnoFR]

Aww! :) Good luck and have a lot of fun!

Thanks ;)
This is tonight or tomorrow, I'll see what I do, and if she's open-minded I try =)

[josefa_2533]

my sister's wedding is coming and since i dont have a boyfriend n all the cute guys i know are gay, I dont mind takin a gay friend with me but there is a big problem with them.. somehow when they drink they become crazy biches, like crazy! (4 real). The guyfriends i have r not material for a wedding... so wot should i do??? take a gf, gayfriend or guyfriend????

[melkoret]

Oh s@#$. What happened?

I sent her away :(

I miss her so much

[DJ_Sam_909]

YAYS! wish me luck! The girl I like broke up with her boyfriend becoz she realised she deserves better than him and she feels the same way about me so I might have a chance :D:D:D:D:D

...

I'm kinda nervous though, I've never asked anyone out before... :S

[DJ_Sam_909]

I sent her away :(

I miss her so much

I'm sorry to hear about that :( If you wanna talk about it more we're here for you dude :)

[roadking02]

I'm now single.... My gf cheated on me right after school started. On Monday everyone is gonna give me hell. I loved her more than anyone in the world and we were engaged... And all my happiness has ended... :(

I have to find someone new... But there's just nobody for me...

[ArnoFR]

I sent her away :(

I miss her so much
Why did you do that ? :/


I'm now single.... My gf cheated on me right after school started. On Monday everyone is gonna give me hell. I loved her more than anyone in the world and we were engaged... And all my happiness has ended... :(

I have to find someone new... But there's just nobody for me...
Don't care about people who will 'give you hell' on Monday, if she did that, that means she's not for you and you deserve someone better, in who you can have trust.
Did the girl explained you why she did that ??

[staceylala]

With me, it always seems to end with some kind of a fight... do more people have this?

Lol same, I tend to always end up up hating me ex's lol
With exception to my ex Yvon. Who I still love to bits lol.


I'm now single.... My gf cheated on me right after school started. On Monday everyone is gonna give me hell. I loved her more than anyone in the world and we were engaged... And all my happiness has ended... :(

I have to find someone new... But there's just nobody for me...

I'm really sorry *hugs*
We're here for you if you need us

[roadking02]

Don't care about people who will 'give you hell' on Monday, if she did that, that means she's not for you and you deserve someone better, in who you can have trust.
Did the girl explained you why she did that ??

She just told me I don't meet her "standards" and just told me a lot of really harsh things.
The worst part is the fact that we made love (she was my 1st) and it really hurts :(

[roadking02]

I'm really sorry *hugs*
We're here for you if you need us

Thank you. That's what I need right now

[ArnoFR]

She just told me I don't meet her "standards" and just told me a lot of really harsh things.
The worst part is the fact that we made love (she was my 1st) and it really hurts :(

I understand, I'm sympathetic :sad:

But (there's always a BUT !), everyone told me, you gotta be disappointed once in your life by a girl before finding 'THE girl of your life', that'll change your point of view of girls, and in the future, if you're disappointed by a girl (she doesn't love you whereas you do), you'll just tell yourself 'This is just a girl among others!' and this disappointment makes you stronger, trust me :)

I know it's hard, especially if it was your first time, you shouldn't feel sad, you should feel angry against this sassy b*tch who dared to cheat on you.
And one more thing, if she cheated on you, just tell you she's not for you, you better know it than being cheated on ignoring this ;)

That's "a bad for a good" (typical french phrase), see the best in what happened:

- You're free.
- You're stronger.
- You know how some girls are.
- You'll fully enjoy your life reminding there are many many many girls who worth more than your ex.
- Now you'll pay more attention before being engaged with a girl.

Seriously, don't be mourning, you've got your whole life ahead of you, I guess you're young (how old are you ?), you got time to get a REALLY serious relationship ;)

As far as I'm concerned I've been jilted 2 times (once after 4-months relationship, another after about 2 weeks but there was a 'before', that means we kinda loved each other but we couldn't go out together (she had someone, I had someone too)), the first time I get up after one day, the second time after 4 hrs...now, I know if a girl cheats on me, I'll just tell me 'I've dated with a b*tch one more time...' :lol:

[Da Funk]

Nice peptalk Arno! But you're damn right.


She just told me I don't meet her "standards" and just told me a lot of really harsh things.
The worst part is the fact that we made love (she was my 1st) and it really hurts :(

That must hurt alot, we're here for you!
But after all, she doesn't seem to be the right girl for you. Think about that, cause who wants to spend his/her life with someone that's not the right one?

[DJ_Sam_909]

She just told me I don't meet her "standards" and just told me a lot of really harsh things.
The worst part is the fact that we made love (she was my 1st) and it really hurts :(

I agree with Da Funk, clearly it wasn't meant to be. It sounds like it would be a mistake to get back together with her. I know it's hard to get over someone you love so much but just open up your feelings and eventually you'll find the right person :) then I'm sure it'll be easier to put your feelings this girl behind you and move on.

[JPML014]

She just told me I don't meet her "standards" and just told me a lot of really harsh things.
The worst part is the fact that we made love (she was my 1st) and it really hurts :(

Yeah, you shouldn't be sad about it. Clearly, if she said that you don't meet her standards right after cheating on you, then that girl is a person without integrity.
Throughout my life, I've heard tons of valuable advice about relationships, which have helped me through harsh times. One of those many words of sage advice was: "Only love the people you have a relationship with, while they are yours. If they leave you, you should love them no more."

There's no point in suffering for something that is in the past, you gotta move ahead. Remember, she isn't the only girl in the world that is great for you. She isn't the perfect girl. Keep in mind that human perfection doesn't exist. If she cheated on you, then she wasn't the one, and it is always much better to know that someone isn't right for you, BEFORE you are in a comitted relationship, like a marriage or something else. Although, finding someone really special is hard, it isn't an impossible search.

If you need anything, remember we're always here to help you out.

[roadking02]

Should I take break from dating for awhile? Or should I look for someone new? I don't wanna rush anything... but there are some girls that are single and I might ask out.