The thread for people with no girlfriends/ boyfriends

[JPML014]

Should I take break from dating for awhile? Or should I look for someone new? I don't wanna rush anything... but there are some girls that are single and I might ask out.

I think that you should look for someone new, but you should give it its time. You should wait until you have a clear mind and when you are certain that you are ready to begin something new.

[ArnoFR]

I think that you should look for someone new, but you should give it its time. You should wait until you have a clear mind and when you are certain that you are ready to begin something new.

I agree.

I know, being with someone else could make your ex jealous (awesome^^), but take your time, enjoy friends and try then ;)

[roadking02]

I'm in school right now and its not going so well... In my first block I saw my ex with the guy... Then I left to see the principle (i was not in trouble) and saw her again out in the hallway by herself. I did not talk to her and just went back to 1st block. After 1st block I saw them outside my 2nd block classroom and started crying... Instead of going to class I just kept crying out in the hallway and went to the counsolar. I just kept crying and wrote down the pain and anger i felt for her. I dont know how much longer I can take this... It just hurts so much and its like I dont even have a heart anymore... I've been up for 2 days straight cause im afraid to dream about my ex... Help anyone? I just wanna get out of this school... Everythings changing... Now nobody even talks to me or anything... They just look down upon me and it hurts! I feel so alone... :(

[windwaker1994]

been there before, where everyone hates you. i solved it by getting pissed off. don't let them make you feel unwelcome. and forget about the girl. she's no longer yours and she shouldn't mean anything to you now. it's her loss for going with someone else. take out your time to heal. then get back out there and show her that you no longer care about her and get someone else.

[DJ_Sam_909]

love hurts :(...but somehow it's the best thing that's ever happened to me O_o

...

wtf?

[ArnoFR]

I'm in school right now and its not going so well... In my first block I saw my ex with the guy... Then I left to see the principle (i was not in trouble) and saw her again out in the hallway by herself. I did not talk to her and just went back to 1st block. After 1st block I saw them outside my 2nd block classroom and started crying... Instead of going to class I just kept crying out in the hallway and went to the counsolar. I just kept crying and wrote down the pain and anger i felt for her. I dont know how much longer I can take this... It just hurts so much and its like I dont even have a heart anymore... I've been up for 2 days straight cause im afraid to dream about my ex... Help anyone? I just wanna get out of this school... Everythings changing... Now nobody even talks to me or anything... They just look down upon me and it hurts! I feel so alone... :(


Man, shrug it off!
You live once, don't waste your time by being sad because of morons who want to laugh at you/annoy you.
Think about something else, ignore them, go ahead...that's all I can tell you, think about YOU, your life, you've to success at school, don't skip because you think about her.

Just...think about her flaws, thinking you're free without this b**ch (sorry to be rough).

[spamwichx]

Man, shrug it off!
You live once, don't waste your time by being sad because of morons who want to laugh at you/annoy you.
Think about something else, ignore them, go ahead...that's all I can tell you, think about YOU, your life, you've to success at school, don't skip because you think about her.

Just...think about her flaws, thinking you're free without this b**ch (sorry to be rough).

Agree.
You just said exactly what I was going to say.
:D

[ArnoFR]

Agree.
You just said exactly what I was going to say.
:D

Oh yeah, I'm the widsome voice ;P

[melkoret]

"Today, me and my boyfriend were fooling around on my bed when things started to get heated. I said to him, "Do what ever you want". He got up and said he'd be right back. I thought he went to get a condom. He came back with a sandwich. FML"

I died laughing

[DJ_Sam_909]

"Today, me and my boyfriend were fooling around on my bed when things started to get heated. I said to him, "Do what ever you want". He got up and said he'd be right back. I thought he went to get a condom. He came back with a sandwich. FML"

I died laughing

lmao! best quote ever! :D

[windwaker1994]

"Today, me and my boyfriend were fooling around on my bed when things started to get heated. I said to him, "Do what ever you want". He got up and said he'd be right back. I thought he went to get a condom. He came back with a sandwich. FML"

I died laughing

maybe it was one of those situations where he thought he was doing the right thing. like how women say that the sexiest thing a man can do is give them a massage and then walk out of the room and do something else. well, he walked out of the room and did something else. though, the massage is strangely absent.

[piroteki]

Oh yeah, I'm the widsome voice ;P
it's a bit of "tough love" but it is good advice. though sometimes people do kind of need a bit of time to mourn the loss. but there can come a point where being in that mood is just doing nothing for you. so yeah, be sad about it, but don't let yourself get stuck there.

@mel: that's a bit off-topic, don't you think?

[staceylala]

To anyone having gf/bf issues, in the words of Brian Ferry:
Dance away the heartache
Dance away the tears
- dance away

[JPML014]

To anyone having gf/bf issues, in the words of Brian Ferry:
Dance away the heartache
Dance away the tears
- dance away

Or you could send the pain away the Peaches way... cept for the fact that that option is Rated R. But Brian Ferry's way is quite effective though.

[staceylala]

Bryan Ferry owns.
FACT.

[roadking02]

I think I found someone to ask out. Her name is holly and I've been talking to her a lot lately. So should I go for it?

[windwaker1994]

I think I found someone to ask out. Her name is holly and I've been talking to her a lot lately. So should I go for it?

definitely... after you're sure that you're ready. but also make sure not to wait too long (i've made both mistakes in the past).

btw, what kind of motorcycle helmet is that in ur avatar? it looks like an A+ Guyman helmet. :)

[digital*aria]

definitely... after you're sure that you're ready. but also make sure not to wait too long (i've made both mistakes in the past).

maybe not definitely. make sure you're not just trying to get over this too quickly and jump right onto another person because you need to be with someone. make sure you really get to know her instead of taking things THIS quickly.

[windwaker1994]

after you're sure that you're ready.


make sure you're not just trying to get over this too quickly and jump right onto another person because you need to be with someone. make sure you really get to know her instead of taking things THIS quickly.

efreakinxactly.



ehh, who am i kidding, i suck at this whole relationship help thing.

[Da Funk]

I also don't think you should ask her out this quickly. It probably will be better if you make up your mind before getting into a new relationship. I know it's nice to have someone special but don't depend on someone in your life, because in the end the only person you have is you. So try to like yourself! :)

[ArnoFR]

I also don't think you should ask her out this quickly. It probably will be better if you make up your mind before getting into a new relationship. I know it's nice to have someone special but don't depend on someone in your life, because in the end the only person you have is you. So try to like yourself! :)

Agree.

For my part...I'm a bit contentious...the girl I wanted to be with seems to like me but I dunno more (never seen her at night, she quarelled with a (girl) friend of mine so she ain't go out with us)...the first girl who seemed to like me very much understood I diddn't want to go further, and Monday I'll see a friend in Monte-Carlo (Monaco), we know each other for 15 years (we're 18), we haven't seen each other for 3 years, I saw her about 1 month ago...and Monday I'll go to see her again, in her empty flat...so we'll see what happens. =)

[Alex]

Agree.

For my part...I'm a bit contentious...the girl I wanted to be with seems to like me but I dunno more (never seen her at night, she quarelled with a (girl) friend of mine so she ain't go out with us)...the first girl who seemed to like me very much understood I diddn't want to go further, and Monday I'll see a friend in Monte-Carlo (Monaco), we know each other for 15 years (we're 18), we haven't seen each other for 3 years, I saw her about 1 month ago...and Monday I'll go to see her again, in her empty flat...so we'll see what happens. =)
You gonna try to hit the jackpot, if you know what i mean?

[staceylala]

God I hate this thread.
lol Sorry

[ArnoFR]

You gonna try to hit the jackpot, if you know what i mean?

Oh yeah :D
Lol, but I don't wanna go out with her, kinda weird, I know, but it's like that. =)

[staceylala]

Srsly guys, isn't this 'the thread for people with no girlfriends/boyfriends' not 'the thread for people talking about getting lucky with some chick'

I don't see why you have to even mention it here at all.

[ArnoFR]

I don't see why you have to even mention it here at all.

To make the thread live...

Nah srsly, my apologies :)

[staceylala]

To make the thread live...

Nah srsly, my apologies :)

:) It's no problem, I can always just not read the thread, but I just find it rude. Just my opinion though.

[ArnoFR]

Rude and heartless, I understand :)

Nonetheless, still single for 3 months...and that's not so bad, I thought the summer would be worst, it was even the opposite =)
No news about my ex, I think a long break after a split is the best way to get better and to forget him/her.

[staceylala]

Lol, I've been technically single for just over two years, done me no harm

[ArnoFR]

Lol, I've been technically single for just over two years, done me no harm

Technically ? How that ? :P
2 years...wow.

[staceylala]

Well I had a summer fling last year lol.

[Alex]

Meh, i've been single for 16 years. Top that.

[DJ GODS]

Meh, i've been single for 16 years. Top that.

18 years. XP

[Alex]

18 years. XP

Damn you. :P

[CJVercetti]

18 years. XP

I've been single for 19 years... I win... sadly

[piroteki]

i was single for like... 20 years... :s lol

i win, except not, because that's over.

[windwaker1994]

i've been single for 3 or 4 years. i could be unsingle but i dunno if i want to. :S high school sucks.

[Daniel_Rider]

Been single a few months shy of 16 years. Options have rose, some I was a fool to brush off, others I was not. Guess I'm happy where I currently am. Could be worse, could be better.

[CJVercetti]

I don't mind being single, but what I do know is I'll never try the whole "friends with benefits" thing again. Next time, I want to be in a relationship first. It can only end badly...

[tomatorama]

Being single for X amount of years when most of those years were YOUR CHILDHOOD doesn't really count as "wah i've been single so many years", ppl!

[staceylala]

Being single for X amount of years when most of those years were YOUR CHILDHOOD doesn't really count as "wah i've been single so many years", ppl!

THIS! lol
Plus who cares if you don't have a bf/gf just be urself and have fun, it's not a necessity.

[digital*aria]

THIS! lol
Plus who cares if you don't have a bf/gf just be urself and have fun, it's not a necessity.

thank you. (and to tomato as well)

its not that i'm sick of this thread personally, but i do have to agree with your previous comment on some level: its always the same story from everyone. there have been so many instances where people have been single for years and years and years, and then suddenly, they found the perfect person they were looking for and ended up getting married.

having a girlfriend/boyfriend when you're younger IS an experience because it lets you experiment with relationships and dealing with other people, but it shouldn't be something forced upon you or something you feel pressured to have. everyone is ready at their own time, and for a lot of people, the perfect person ISN'T right under their nose and DOESN'T live in their home town, so it might take a long time until they find them.

i'm single too, and even though i think it would be nice to have someone, i'm not going to complain about it because i know its not going to change anything and will only make me feel worse about myself. so being single for 16, 18, 20 years etc really isn't pathetic at all. it just says something about the quality of the people around you =].

[piroteki]

haha, i actually agree with everyone on the "don't complain" front. i know i contributed some numbers, but it wasn't because i was unhappily single for all those years (i was totally fine with it!) i just figured i could beat some people in a game of numbers. :P lol

[Daniel_Rider]

I'd just like to point out that I wasn't complaining, it just seemed like all the cool kids were doing it and I was just following suit. D=

[staceylala]

I'd just like to point out that I wasn't complaining, it just seemed like all the cool kids were doing it and I was just following suit. D=

Does that make me the coolest because I started the craze?
LOL

[Alex]

I apologize, but you know, its so frustrating seeing everyone with their partners and me being the loner.

[Daniel_Rider]

Does that make me the coolest because I started the craze?
LOL

You know you're a cool cat.

[NightShark]

I apologize, but you know, its so frustrating seeing everyone with their partners and me being the loner.
Yeah, I see it in the hallways everyday. And it angers me to no end.

[windwaker1994]

this is now my least favorite thread.

[tomatorama]

I apologize, but you know, its so frustrating seeing everyone with their partners and me being the loner.


Yeah, I see it in the hallways everyday. And it angers me to no end.

Look, right there, it isn't "everyone", there is AT LEAST two of you. And as everyone has just been saying, they were single for X amount of years and it seemed like a long time. If you're still in high school, whilst some students experiment early, it's extremely common for NOTHING to happen at all. YOU'RE YOUNG.


this is now my least favorite thread.

Uh why? Because of all the people saying "It's normal/good to be single and if you want a bf/gf you usually get one when you're older"? Boo to them.

[staceylala]

This was always my least favourate thread lol

[windwaker1994]

Uh why? Because of all the people saying "It's normal/good to be single and if you want a bf/gf you usually get one when you're older"? Boo to them.

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/22/Lolwut_cat.jpg

[roadking02]

Yesterday my ex girlfriend told me she loved me at school... I just walked off but she also sent me an e-mail saying how she wants me back. At the end of the day she was waiting for me outside of class for break and she fallowed me around the whole time. Then went in my 2nd block class and waited for me there as well. We've been split up for about 2 weeks and my heart apparently still has feelings for her. What should i do?

[ArnoFR]

Yesterday my ex girlfriend told me she loved me at school... I just walked off but she also sent me an e-mail saying how she wants me back. At the end of the day she was waiting for me outside of class for break and she fallowed me around the whole time. Then went in my 2nd block class and waited for me there as well. We've been split up for about 2 weeks and my heart apparently still has feelings for her. What should i do?

I had the same !

Tell her: If you're able to wait 1 month single, that'll be a proof you love me and you won't go to see away.
If she does it, you can trust her, if she doesn't, well..forget her.

I said that to my ex, as a result she've gone with someone else less than 2 weeks later, so I decided not to talk to her anymore in order not to get the same she did. ;)
But after THE month, she asked me anyway, I replied 'No Way', and that's how our history really ended. :)

[windwaker1994]

Yesterday my ex girlfriend told me she loved me at school... I just walked off but she also sent me an e-mail saying how she wants me back. At the end of the day she was waiting for me outside of class for break and she fallowed me around the whole time. Then went in my 2nd block class and waited for me there as well. We've been split up for about 2 weeks and my heart apparently still has feelings for her. What should i do?

OH. MY. GOD!!! D:

i STILL can't believe it's not butter!


i'm sorry... i'll go now. :(


edit: actually, you know what? leaver her ass behind! she cheated on you! that *****! if a girl cheated on me, i'd kiss her ass goodbye for life. ignore your feelings. they're natural. but DON'T TAKE HER BACK! >=(